Question: Dear Greg,I'm writing because I feel you are one of the few people I can talk to about these matters. My wife and I have been reading and learning so much about the love of God.   But, we do so with two realities in mind:  1) As you know, we came out of an authoritarian and legalistic church, and of course what we learned about God at that religious address was so very wrong.  Since that time we have found fellowship with a far more spiritually healthy group, but now we are once again learning more … when we left that authoritarian and legalistic church, we went through much pain and the loss of many ...